DISABLING A GAMEOBJECT BUT PLAYER CAN STILL HIT IT?

hey guys! my i need some help, its not really about scripting.... i think. when i disable a gameobject through scripts, my player for some reason can still collide with the box collider, even with triggered and the entire gameobject is diabled! this just recently happened and it has ruined my entire game. ): please anybody know how to fix this glitch? thankyou!!