How to delete object which contains script with inherited class

it's not clear to me what you mean by object.

is it object? or object? or maybe object?

I'll suppose you're talking about the third one: if you have a reference to the game object you just call Destroy(referenceToGameObject) or Destroy(yourScript.gameObject) if it is a mono Behaviour

You cannot delete the object that has a MOnoBehaviour inherited class on it and then call an event of that destroyed class. Cannot cook the food you already ate.

what you should do is call the event first and destroy the object second. (you can also destroy the object from its own event)