Weird problems with exectution orders and just simple bools????

I'm using C#, and I have 3 scripts. 1 is a bullet script to shoot with raycast, another goes on my enemy, and another on each limb of my enemy (for "blowback purposes :D)

The problem is, on my bullet script, I'm trying to detect if the enemy is dead inside of the enemy script (the bullet script is 'GunShootMagazine', the enemy is 'KillZombie', and the limbs scripts are called 'ZombieLimb'). Here's the codes:

KillZombie

 if (enemyHealth <= 0) {
                         Debug.Log ("Enemy Dead!!");
 
                         //Make the bones flap around
                         foreach (Rigidbody rigidbodyFore in rigidbodies) {
                                 rigidbodyFore.isKinematic = false;
                         }
                         animer.enabled = false;
                         GetComponent<PlayAnimations> ().enabled = false;
 
 
             iAmAlive = false;
             enabled = false;
                 }

Bullet Script

 if (hitObject.transform.root.GetComponentInChildren<KillZombie>().iAmAlive == false) {
                 Debug.Log ("AddForceToMe should now be true(it should be 'true false' under this)");
                 hitObject.transform.GetComponent<ZombieLimb>().addForceToMe = true;
             }
 
 
 
             if (hitObject.transform.root.GetComponentInChildren<KillZombie>().iAmAlive == true) {
                 hitObject.transform.root.GetComponentInChildren<KillZombie>().enemyHealth -=damage;
                 Debug.Log ("Enemy Lost Health! " + hitObject.transform.root.GetComponentInChildren<KillZombie>().enemyHealth);
             }

And my Limb Script

 if (addForceToMe) {
                                 rigidbody.AddForce (Vector3.forward * 1000);
                                 Debug.Log ("Added force to " + this.transform.name);
                                 enabled = false;
                         }

Ok, so my problem is I'm trying to set the limbs' "addForceToMe" to true when the zombie is dead. I HAVE to have it be detected from my bullet script so it knows which limb part to apply it to. When it tries to see if the zombie is dead in the bullet script, it keeps skipping over that as if it's not dead. I don't know why I'm a little brain dead right now from thinking about this so much. If anyone knows the reason, help would be appreciated! Thanks for reading (any more details can be provided) Thanks!