Adjust audio based on Proximity

define your player's distance from the object and tell it to play when he gets within range:

for instance... something like this would be attached to your game object. Make sure your game object has an audio source on it and a clip attached.. otherwise assign a clip in code. I'll do that here...

 var playerDistance : float;
 var gameAudio : AudioClip;
 var canPlayAudio = true;
 
 function Update() {
 
 playerDistance = player.transform.position - transform.position;
 
 if (playerDistance < 10) {
 if (canPlayAudio) {
 audio.clip = gameAudio;
 audio.volume = 0.5; // adjust the volume to whatever you want
 audio.Play();
 canPlayAudio = false;  // you can reset this in your code elsewhere... I did this just to make sure the audio only plays once.
 }
 }
 }

Well, that's the point of a 3D sound. Sounds quite when far from the listener and loud when next to it. But, if you want to do this by script you can add a script to the gameobject which has an audio source and do some coding like:

C# code:

     public Transform target;
     
     void Start () {
     
     StartCoroutine(AdjustVolume());
     
     }
     
     IEnumerator AdjustVolume () {
     
     while(true) {
 
 if(audio.isPlaying) { // do this only if some audio is being played in this gameObject's AudioSource
 
     float distanceToTarget = Vector3.Distance(transform.position, target.position); // Assuming that the target is the player or the audio listener
     
     if(distanceToTarget < 1) { distanceToTarget = 1; }
     
     audio.volume = 1/distanceToTarget; // this works as a linear function, while the 3D sound works like a logarithmic function, so the effect will be a little different (correct me if I'm wrong)
     
     yield return new WaitForSeconds(1); // this will adjust the volume based on distance every 1 second (Obviously, You can reduce this to a lower value if you want more updates per second)
     
     }
     }
     
     }