Problem in starting mysqld Process

Hello, after a view hours trying i gave up trying. now i use this .bat file before opening my program: cd C:\Users\Obscuritas\Documents\Negima - Demonic Impact server\mysql\bin\mysqld --defaults-file=my.ini --console pause and i have to execute it as administrator.

i now have copied (desperated) the whole mysql installation folder in my project. i tried using the Process.Start command but it just doesn't work. i even used it with the Verb "runas" to start it as administrator but it doesn't work too...

i don't know what to do and i wanted to start this mysqld process without showing a console because the console always shows in the foreground and stops the sounds in my project !!

i hope somebody can help me