Destroying objects within collision

I am having a problem when destroying an object while it is within a collider. I'm not trying to have the collider destroy the object.

Think of TF2, Overwatch, or Paladins. The Capture The Point type of gameplay is what I am working on... but if a character is still within the capture point and is destroyed, it is still being counted as being on point.

I have two scripts I am trying to work with on this: This is the script on the Objective Point

 public float redCapCols;
 public float blueCapCols;
 
 private void OnTriggerEnter(Collider col){
 if (col.tag == "TeamBlue"){
 blueCapCols++;
 }
 if (col.tag == "TeamRed"){
 redCapCols++;
 }
 }

This is the script on the player

 public GameObject capPoint;
 public float redCapCol;
 public float blueCapCol;
 public float curHealth;
 
 void Start(){
 CapPoint capturePoint = capPoint.GetComponent<CapPoint>();
 redCapCol = capturePoint.redCapCols;
 blueCapCol = capturePoint.blueCapCols;
 }
 private void OnTriggerStay (Collider col){
 if (col.tag == "objective" && this.tag == "TeamRed"){
 if(curHealth <= 0){
 redCapCol--;
 }
 }
 if (col.tag == "objective" && this.tag == "TeamBlue"){
 if (curHealth <= 0){
 blueCapCol--;
 }
 }

The Character Script also has code that will destroy it and whatnot when curHealth <= 0, but when the player is destroyed The CapCol(s) will keep a counter even with the Player gone.

In the player Script I have tried OnTriggerEnter, OnTriggerStay, and OnTriggerExit, cannot find how to fix this problem.