How to access a variable in ScriptableObject from another script?

Hi, I have asked the question once but was sadly left unanswered ):

So I'll ask again, as much as this is against the rules. How do I access a variable in a ScriptableObject? I have generated the asset file in my project view already, but I have yet to be able to access the variable from another script/class.

It would be immensely helpful if anyone could provide a way for my to access the object.

Do I use resource.load? It isnt working for me, for some reason it says it's null when I use this line.

ballStorageAsset = Resources.Load("BallStorage");